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Fear of Heights

I wonder if squirrels ever have a fear of heights.

Squirrel in treeHave you ever just sat and watched squirrels scurry up and down trees, running up and down their trunks, jumping from one branch and from the top of one tree to another with seemingly no effort or fear of falling? I especially love it when two or more squirrels start chasing each other up and down and round and round and over and across almost faster than I can keep up with them. Vertically, horizontally, it doesn’t really matter. They just go. It amazes me how they simply fly from one branch to another, from one tree to another, sometimes to and from branches that appear to be far too small and brittle to hold their weight, and they simply grab on and keep going. No fear, no hesitancy, just pure unadulterated energy and grace.

Now this isn’t to say they never fall, either to a lower branch or even to the ground. When I lived in northern Virginia just outside Washington DC, my neighbor in the townhouse next door had several bird feeders hanging from a tree behind her unit. No matter how far down from the branches she would hang those birdfeeders, the squirrels would always find a way to work their way down the skinny metal hangers, even hanging themselves upside down, to get to the bird seed. One day, as I watched this particular squirrel, he actually lost his hold and fell about five or six feet to the ground (not a small distance relative to his size). He sat there for a few seconds looking a bit dazed, as if he was thinking, “What the #(*! just happened?”, got up, and ran right back up the tree trunk and out across the same branch to work his way back out to the feeder. Pure determination. Purely unphased. It was if nothing had happened, or that what had just happened didn’t matter. He was strictly in the moment, focused only on his goal.

Rock ClimberWhy is it that some of us have absolutely no fear of heights? Think of those who scale the sides of the highest mountains in the world. How many have now reached the peak of Mt. Everest, or at least made the attempt, not just once but multiple times? And then there are those rock climbers who scale up the sides of perfectly vertical cliffs with nothing to protect them from a deadly fall but a rope and a few hooks (and sometimes not even that). Consider the men — and a few women — who barnstormed their way across America in the early days of flight, or the fighter pilots today who soar thousands of feet into the sky and perform almost impossible acrobatics with absolutely no hesitancy or apparent fear. Then there are those for whom just the thought of looking out a third story window scares them to death, much less standing on the edge of the Grand Canyon and beholding in all the incredible grandeur that awaits them, simply because of their fear of falling off the edge into the abyss.

Consider not only physical heights, but also ascension into prosperity and abundance. Why is it that some people seem to be able to scale the heights of success with barely the blink of an eye, never looking down along the way, while others with similar intelligence and abilities barely make it off the ground? Is it the fear of falling into the abyss of failure that holds us back? Is it the fear that once we’ve scaled the mountain, we’ll lose sight of our base camp from which we began our journey? Is it simply the lack of knowing what magnificence awaits us at the top? Is it a fear that we may end up there all alone with no one to share our joy, or that those remaining below will think us fools or wonder who we think we are or walk away out of mere jealousy?

Is it possible we could profit from spending more time simply watching squirrels and learning from them the possibility that the only things we should fear, as Franklin D. Roosevelt once challenged, are our own mostly unfounded fears themselves?

Bigotry

I wonder what the world would be like if there were no such thing as bigotry . . . of any kind.

It seems that bigotry has been such an integral part of human society throughout history that one would almost come to the conclusion that it’s simply part of human nature.  Arabs hate the Jews, Catholics hate the Protestants, whites hate the blacks,  the French hate the English, the poor hate the rich, heterosexuals hate homosexuals, the Sunnis hate the Shiites, and vice versa and on and on and on and on and on.

Yet, at the same time, there are infinite examples of people (and I’m sure there always have been) who, on an individual scale, get along with and live alongside each other in peace, and even marry and create families across racial, religious, ethnic and socio-economic lines.

Kinder and gentlerI’ve known people who, in one breath will berate people of other races and religious backgrounds, and in the next, speak of an individual member of one of those same groups whom they’ve gotten to know and talk about what a wonderful person they are.  I’ve read incredibly heart-warming articles about Israelis and Palestinians who have come together to live and work together in perfect harmony while their political and military leaders continue to destroy each others’ homes and livelihoods.

In the United States, even back in the days of slavery, it was not uncommon for masters to actually fall in love with one of their slaves.

There’s an age-old adage that we tend to hate or fear what we don’t understand.  I wonder if we simply made a little more effort to get acquainted with and understand each other on an individual basis, any form of the word “bigotry” might eventually disappear from the face of the Earth.

©2011 Steve L. Vernon
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Ants and Us

Have you ever sat on the patio and watched ants moving the remains of a larger insect or other object from one place to another?  It’s absolutely amazing.  It’s a known fact that ants, like bees and other creatures, are extremely communal.  They’re also extremely resourceful.

One day I was on my back porch doing some work on my laptop when I happened to look down and see a trail of black ants making their way across the edge of the pavement.  One of them was transporting something (I never did quite figure out exactly what it was) about ten times bigger than he was, in such a way that it was obvious he couldn’t see where he was going.  Other ants (one or two at a time) would alternate in helping him guide the large object and then follow along to watch their fellow ant’s progress.  They’d work with him for two or three inches or so, then move out of the way and let another one or two jump in and help, and then jump back in and help a little more.  Others would simply do the “rubber-necking” routine — you know….you’re driving down the street and see a fender bender or a car stopped along the side in need of some help, and you simply can’t resist slowing down to check things out.  This was exactly what was happening, as well, in addition to the actual teamwork that was taking place.  Every few ants or so would slow their pace and meander a bit closer to the scene just enough to see what was going on, and then scurry on their way.  It was fascinating.

This seemed to be just like a lot of people, curious but not interested or in too much of a hurry to stop and help.  I wondered . . . did they recognize the ant trying to carry the load and realized it was someone from the opposing team?  What about the ones who DID stop and help, if only for a few seconds?  Were they family or neighbors or members of the same ant lodge?  Just nice guys who saw a fellow ant in need?  Who knows?

It reminded me of a situation a couple of years ago when my car just totally stalled at a major intersection about half a mile from where I was headed to a friend’s for dinner.  The car just died with no warning.  It was like someone had just reached under the hood and unplugged everything.  I had no power steering, no power brakes, no instrument panel lights . . . nothing.  Just as I was getting out of the car to see if I could figure out what was going on and the light was getting ready to turn green, two guys (one in the truck behind me and one in an SUV in the next lane over) jumped out of their vehicles and helped me push my car across the intersection and into a parking lot out of harm’s way.  I didn’t know these guys from Adam, had never seen them before, and neither of them hung around long enough for me to do anything more than barely get out a quick “thank you”.  They simply disappeared back to their vehicles over on the other side of the intersection, and that was the last I ever saw them, like angels out of nowhere.

I wonder what makes some of us stop and help, while others simply walk or drive on by with nothing more than a quick glance of curiosity?  I wonder why sometimes I stop and make an effort and other times hurry on to my own destination?  Does the mood just strike me and the next time not?  Am I too lazy? Too unconcerned?  In too much of a hurry?  Do I figure there’s no return in it for me?  Do I look at the person and decide at first glance that I like or not like that person in need?  What?

I wonder . . . do ants have more in common with us than we might imagine?

©2011 Steve L. Vernon
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